Today's Scripture
Philippians 2:3
Do nothing from selfish ambition or empty conceit, but in humility regard others as better than yourselves.
Most view ambition and conceit as “bad” and humility as “good.” I don’t.
I value and require all three traits. The challenge is to find a healthy balance.
I resent Paul’s tone here—using the pejorative adjectives “selfish” and “empty.” Does he realize that his words taint our ability to find an all-important equilibrium?
Instead of a binary good vs. evil for these traits, I think about Aristotle’s Golden Mean: the idea that true virtue is the “sweet spot” between two extremes.
The Engine, the Shield, and the Wire
Ambition is the engine of progress. Without it, innovation and social change stall. Ambition is the drive to serve a cause, a family, a community. It is what keeps a doctor in the lab for 30 years searching for a cure.
Conceit is the shield. It serves as a psychological buffer of self-belief against critics. If you don’t maintain a high opinion of your own potential, you will lack the nerve required to take the risks necessary for success.
Humility is the grounding wire. It provides the intellectual honesty to acknowledge that you don’t know everything. Humility makes you teachable, allowing you to learn from anyone.
Virtue is not the absence of these traits, but a mastery of their proportions:
Trait |
Deficiency |
Golden Mean |
Excess |
Ambition |
Sloth / Apathy |
Drive/Purpose |
Greed / Ruthlessness |
Conceit |
Self-Loathing |
Confidence |
Narcissism |
Humility |
Servility |
Modesty/Openness |
Self-Abasement |
Instead of applying judgy adjectives and emptying ourselves of drive or self-confidence, we need, with God’s direction, to find our Golden Mean.
Prayer
Dear God, help me navigate the tensions of ambition, conceit, and humility. Guide me toward my Golden Mean, so that I may show—and not just tell of—virtue and love. Amen.
Written by Phil Calian, Member of Fourth Presbyterian Church
Reflection and prayer © Fourth Presbyterian Church
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